are one of the most essential moments and tools in a date. It can make or break your dating life, in fact. A girl can overlook your flaws if your conversations are interesting and engaging
. If you can make a girl laugh and get hooked to talking with you, you’re likely to make her swoon over you sooner or later.
The problem with most men is that they are only engaging in
conversations with friends and family. They can only be as engaging as
they are comfortable with people and their conversations are only as
good as they are confident.
So here are some tips on how to be an engaging conversationalist and wow any girl on a date:
- Ask the right questions. A
conversation almost always starts with a questions to set up the
conversation and the answers and remarks from it should ideally pick up
pace. That is why the first question is always critical. Know which
questions are okay, which questions are great and which questions are
an absolute no-no especially to girls (i.e. questions on weight, ex,
etc). If you don't know what to say, here's SIBG's opinion on flirting with girls.
- Say things the right way. More
important that asking the right questions is to ask your questions the
right way. The tone of your voice, your hand gestures, and the look on
your face will always send messages her way – and you know how women
can overtly analytical and critical about everything! Speak loud enough
for her to hear, speak your words clearly, and ask as if you’re
interested – not as if you’re prejudging her or you’re interrogating
- Listen. The basics of a good conversation includes being able to speak out as well as listen.
What’s the point of asking her if you won’t listen to her answers
anyway? So listen to what she has got to say. Even when her answer is
less than audible, or maybe even less than sensible or something you
don’t understand, listen to her. You know how important being a good
listener is to women so make sure you do listen. A good indicator that
you were listening is when you can make sensible remarks from what she
has told you.
- Be humorous. Inject fun
and laughter into the conversation with the right funny remarks said at
the right time. You’re on a good stature, dating wise, if you can make
your date laugh. Humor is sexy
after all. When she feels good around you, she would definitely like
your company and will likely go out with you another time. Avoid racist
humor. Avoid sexual humor too. Avoid anything that tends to go towards
becoming self-demeaning or offensive to her.
- Look into her eyes. Looking elsewhere means you’re not interested.
Fidgeting with something and looking at it while she’s talking is
offensive and makes you look disinterested still. Establish connection
early on with eye contact. This makes her ease up to you and become
more comfortable towards you. Remember, eye contact is a sign of
confidence and trustworthiness.
These tips are useful in any conversation not just in dates. Try
this even with your business conversations and you’ll be surprised with
the good results. Good luck!
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